Family feuds/squabbles/quarrels... are better left... SOLVED.
I'm glad this one is over and done with.
It went on wayyy too long for my liking.
If I was back @ home, i WOULD have done something about it months back when it started, trust me.
Even if it meant having to deal with 2 stubborn, close to middle-aged, un-talking siblings like you both
(and god, if only people know how difficult you both can be!!!!) in one tiny room - at the same time.
Life's too short and precious to waste NOT talking over trivial matters.