Wednesday, April 08, 2009
I don't know why, but today was a cleaning up day. I even planned to do it in advance - now that's something.
maybe its because my room doesn't resemble a room anymore.
maybe because I'm afraid of getting an asthma attack.
maybe its because I'm sick and tired of seeing the mess (like finally).
so. clean up, i did.
n with a cleaner room, it sure feels much much much nicer to laze around.
I'm just missing the husband, or we'd have a complete picture. but wait a minute, if the husband was around, my room WILL never be messy. he won't let it.
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anyways. this month will mark our 6 month ROMM anniversary.
oh, and its ALSO been a whole effin' year since I got back for good. so quick, right?
but because Hubz had been away for the past 4 months or so, I haven't actually get to feel so married afterall.
Come to think of it, I still feel like a pretty much single student, something like in poly, but with more bills, and a better head on these shoulders. heh.
I don't know when I'd feel like the wife that I already am, since he hasn't mentioned coming back to work here for good. I don't even have much wifely duties, for starters.
No cooking - Mum takes care of that @ home (altho at some point I need to learn. Hubz is coming home, sooon!)
Not much to launder or iron, apart from my stuff. No clothes to pick out.
No coffee to serve.
No financial stuff to discuss, the reason being Hubz pays for most of the stuff. I just tell him the datelines!
What else is a wife supposed to do when the husband is around???
I don't even know, because I haven't had much experience even after 6 months!
I guess I'm pretty much havin' it easy for now. Maybe some months along, I'd be singing a different tune.
:p who knows, who knows??
For now though, I'm still striking out dates. Thats 6 weeks, 5 days more to go.
Not many more chances of having the messy room, eh???